SHOUT OUT to a new friend!

ok....so...this really weird...yet really COOL thing happened to me today. and basically it happened (I believe anyway) because of my ability to see past a person's limitations and see their true potential for greatness. (yea...I know...most of you, after reading some of my posts here would probably be a bit surprised by that statement, but it IS true) That statement is just as true as my uncanny ability to see a persons (or society's even) true weaknesses as well...yes...including my own. and I believe I have demonstrated that throughout this blog, however...(this isn't one of those weird abilities you hear about on the X-files or anything. .lol) I have simply learned through experience that lying to anyone...including myself is an extreme waste of valuable time...time I don't have to be dilly fucking around playing some retarded cat and mouse game full of half truths and misinformation.

THAT said I believe it was also this rather unique way I approach my life that I mentioned that basically sealed the DEAL on this newly found "friend for life" that I "found" (for lack of a better term at the moment anyway) today. His name is Vincent Chaput. And if he is as for real as he appears would have to be one of the most selfless people I have ever met aside from myself personally. (like I said...just met him today...and you can't really know a person in just a day...but by the END of the day...I think I learned enough to know that he is certainly one of the "good guys" out there that you can't help but feel a little hope for humanity after you meet him...ya know? and this is where the story gets really interesting...

So...it all started when I got a friend request on Facebook. (don't judge! you know...these days all the best WTF stories seem to start with "it all started with a friend request on **enter anti-social network name here***) so sit back and enjoy the fun.

so...this "friend request" at first seemed pretty suspicious. (because of my "unique political views" I have made a lot of sneaky and underhanded enemies along the way. lol (Truth always scares the most corrupted it would seem) ANYWAY....getting off topic...the point was...my guard was up initially. Now the only friend we had in common was one of my years long closest bestie like...ever! but...it seemed ODD that he wouldn't share any OTHER common friends as we tend to share a lot of friends on our lists...so I asked her about this random phantom friend requester to see if I could learn more about him. Then she tells me that he is the man who literally turned her life around, who made her dream come true, and helped her form one of the best most healthy friendships I have ever seen her have (short of the one she has with me personally anyway...I have been there for her every step of the way...even when she was at her lowest) so RIGHT AWAY I already liked the dude...ya know? you made my bestie happier than I have ever seen her before, so you get instant "YOU WIN AT LIFE" points from ME anyway if you can do that!

So anyway...I accept his request and pass him a little message explaining how she described him to me, and thanking him for being awesome and helping her live her dream. Some hours later...he responds back to me...and I guess it was kind of (all be it odd) history from then on. He started looking through my facebook wall (and for those of you reading who HAVE my facebook...you KNOW how offensively political it can be and brutally in your face honest about life issues, and morality, and a lot of other mixed topics, but chances are I have offended everyone on this planet at some point in time, I'm sure. lol but...he LOVED it! said he agreed with EVERY SINGLE thing I talked about and posted, and honestly...how fucking rare is it that someone will agree with you about everything? like every opinion? I know people who have been married their whole lives since high school...who are now in rocking chairs that don't agree on EVERYTHING. But he swore he just..."gets it" gets the way I think (which I'll be honest...sometimes I don't even understand how I think at times. lol sometimes...these posts just end up being a straight up from the heart how I feel about the shit I see every day. but with no real purpose when I start other than cathartic release of tension I guess. but...the things I write about here even...(yes he LOVES this blog too apparently...and hence why I thought it fitting to shout him out here. :) ) he agrees with what I say here...and honestly...this blog was intended to be a "hey world! smarten the fuck up!!" kind of thing...but sometimes life gives us rare GOOD "WTF" moments, and didn't want to waste this amazing occurrence by not documenting it somehow. and well...this is the way I have chosen to do it I guess....

So...to TRY and make a rather complicated story as short as possible here...It turns out his life's mission is making my bestie's day in any way he can and keeping a big smile on her face at all times...and from what I have seen...he's done a pretty damned good job of it too. (NO sarcasm here at all...seriously!) He quite literally made my best friend's whole LIFE. Not just on a "wow...that person really made my day" kind of thing, but what he did for her...(though to him I think he just saw it as a little token of kindness to a really sweet woman at the time) what he did literally changed her life forever and in a beautiful way. He gave her the bond of an AMAZING...LASTING friendship with a famous person she idolized, who from getting to know this famous person a little has turned out to be a pretty amazing guy himself! I was ecstatic for her when she actually got her first phone call from this mentioned "famous person" (his name must remain unspoken for what I would think is pretty obvious reasons) and this newly found friend was the man responsible for making that all happen for her.

So...we started chatting and discussing personal philosophies and such to get an idea where each was coming from. as per this silly social ritual we humans are so fond of called "getting to know each other" lol and it turns out this guy is like...I dunno...the male version of me to a tee I guess....only...without QUITE as much foul language. HAHAHA! (Yea...I'm a potty mouth, and I honestly don't give a fuck. lol)

But as our conversation turned from a "quick voice chat" to an hours long philosophical discussion is when I realized...this guy really DOES agree with me on everything. Like I never said ONE thing throughout that whole conversation that he seemed to take offense to, or disagree with in any way...and let me tell you...when you are 100% honest...BRUTALLY so in MOST cases...there aren't many people left that you won't end up offending eventually...but this guy...there is something different about him...I could tell at that point...because let's face it...I'm a fuckin weirdo. lol TRUTH!

I'm a non-conformist/constitutionalist with one HELL of a rebel streak when it comes to standing up for my ideals. I could care LESS if government declares something "illegal". if it is an unconstitutional law...I WILL VIOLATE it on principle!

I genuinely don't care what people think about me. The fact this guy actually adored me for the way I am, and AGREED with EVERYTHING I said just about nearly gave me a heart attack lol....I don't know how to act when people actually agree with me. lol I thought for sure I was the only one left on this planet who can see the shit going on in this world for what it REALLY is and not what government tells you to believe it is. I thought I was basically a sane woman trying to get through life in an insane world. lol then this guy randomly pops into my life, becomes an INSTANT fan of this blog here when I told him about it even subscribing to it! (wich honestly surprises me a little considering I am NOT afraid to call it the way I see it and usually in the harshest "get to the fucking point" manner possible I suppose. but he can actually...wait for it...HANDLE THE TRUTH! for reals, he just GETS it!

It restored my faith in humanity a bit after I met him...because honestly, who can't love a guy who actually CAN handle the truth? I think this guy is a pretty cool friend, and it will be fun watching him and talking to him over however many political "issues" he may bring up in the future. lol But...moral of the story...as you do good for others...good will eventually find it's way back to you in one way or another... if that is what you put out to the world anyway...THAT said...Hopefully that will help you understand a little why I felt the need to post a more uplifting story today. lol